My Journal Rules

Unca_Tim · Posted: Wed Jun 07, 2006 8:10 pm Post subject: My Journal Rules

OK Guys,
We've had several requests to add a journal section to the forum (I think DogMa just resurfaced it in a recent post), so here it is.

This will only be accessible to registered users.

Name your personal thread your registered user "Screename".
All new posts not given the name of a registered user will be moved.
1 thread (post) per registered user.

What I'd like everyone to do is, make 1 post per user and keep your own journal, diary, thoughts, etc... in your personal post.

Registered users are able to reply, add or comment in your journal.

Let me know if you have any other ideas for this room.

Who's brave enough to be the first?

Joelie · Posted: Wed Jun 07, 2006 8:29 pm Post subject:

GREAT idea!

I have a suggestion.

Maybe instead of registered users being able reply, add or comment IN the journal...how about a separate thread for replying, adding or commenting so the journalist can pick up where he/she left off without having to wade through tons of posts etc.
Not that we don't LOOOOOVE ALL the comments...cuz we all do!

Of course I have no clue if that would even work without having to lock each persons journal or if it would even be possible to only allow the journalist access to post in his/her own journal. Ok...I'm starting to ramble! Just a thought.

And NO...I am NOT brave enough to be the first one!

emarooster · Posted: Wed Jun 07, 2006 11:08 pm Post subject:

Cool idea. I'll go ahead on in. You east-coasters can join me tomorrow.

DogMa · Posted: Thu Jun 08, 2006 12:37 am Post subject:

I'm next!! Thanks, Tim!!

DogMa · Posted: Thu Jun 08, 2006 12:40 am Post subject:

Oh, Joelie, it's nice to let others post in your journal. On my previous group, we used them as a place to catch up with friends or even sometimes talk about stuff not related to diet or exercise.

It's nice to have a place to talk about stuff that maybe everyone else isn't interested in, and then it doesn't clutter up the other areas so much.

Joelie · Posted: Thu Jun 08, 2006 4:42 am Post subject:

Ah! I hadn't looked at it that way.

Then again...I've never done a journal for anything either.

Unca_Tim · Posted: Thu Jun 08, 2006 8:58 am Post subject:

Just wanted to add.....

This is your own personal thread to do whatever you please with.
It doesn't have to be Medifast related.

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Loribug · Posted: Fri Jan 25, 2008 8:17 pm Post subject:

ditto! I kind of liked that little fairy....

Unca_Tim · Posted: Sat Jan 26, 2008 1:25 am Post subject:

lifelovinaries · Posted: Sat Jan 26, 2008 7:53 am Post subject:

Unca, i know that kym was upset when posting this but i think she has VALID points to which you have responded. HOWEVER, i think what is happening here is many places on the forum, there are pics and/or comments that individuals may not agree with or find acceptable but no one complains and they are not removed. No one complains, because there is no reason TO complain. The way i look at it is...it is my choice to read/view it or not. If I find something that i don't necessarily agree with, i have the choice to not go back to it. When we had the discussion about our previous signature before, you said the primary problem with it was that, since it was in the signature, it would appear ALL OVER the forum and would never "go away". You stated that if it had just been in the journal, it would have eventually "disappeared" (getting so far back in the thread that no one really sees it anymore). Isn't this the case with the fairy pic? It would have eventually "disappeared"? I can truly understand kym's point about feeling singled out. We joke around so much with each other and others on the board that the word scrutiny is beginning to come to mind. I know as moderator, this is your job. No, I don't think ANYTHING should be allowed, I do believe that lines have to be drawn. I accepted the scale w**re thing because, with an open mind and reading some posts (esp. Tawanda's) i see how the word could be offensive to some, and you were right, in our sig, it would have appeared EVERYWHERE, continually offending. Your point was made and accepted. However, in the case of this "scale fairy", it is much different. Just as you try to get others to see your point, i am just explaining the other side of the fence. I think we need to look at WHO it is that is complaining. Is it just one person or is it 10? Is it the same person/people all the time? Do they complain about others all the time? Does it seem to be someone that just doesnt care for kym (or me for that matter)? Of course, these are rhetorical questions, i don't expect you to answer them publicly BUT just used for thought. Have you ever thought of how many other things here may not be appropriate but as opposed to running to the moderator, many just choose to ignore it, knowing that it is and individual's freedom of speech/expression? I know that this is your board/your decision, but doesn't this board in some way belong to the rest of us too? I look at it as a part of life...we don't agree with EVERYTHING we see or hear. We don't always like everyone or everybody. AND THAT'S OK. THAT'S LIFE. We are here for a common reason. Supporting each other. This forum has been known for supporting and caring for each other for things OTHER THAN mf. How is that support and care shown? Many different ways, whether it's in the form of

, jokes,

, uplifting pics, or kind words. The support is still there. Ok, i know this has been long winded. I am not trying to take up your time, but i do think it was worth saying. I do hope that my statements are taken as constructive, they are in no way stated while "whining" because as i said, it is your forum/your decision. Will this make me complain about every little thing i see/read? Of course not. Then again, that's just not my MO. Hope you have a good day unca (and anyone else reading this)! It's cold here in Jersey, just tryin' to keep warm.

alpha femme · Posted: Sat Jan 26, 2008 10:56 am Post subject:

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Unca_Tim · Posted: Sat Jan 26, 2008 12:57 pm Post subject:

Let me start this by letting you know, I was raised a navy kid, was a logger, rancher, and cowboy most my life. I played VERY rough clubs in a rock and roll band in my younger days. There's very little I haven't seen or heard and I have a VERY high threshold when it comes to being offended by anything. My point of view is one opinion that sets the bar on what we allow on this forum.

The hosts of this forum who's name is at the top of every page of this forum have pastored a church for many years, are Presidential Directors with TSFL and are on the board of TSFL. That is another point of view that goes into the mix on what we allow on this forum.

With those points of view and life experiences thrown into the mix, when we are confronted with complaints or objections to content or conduct on the forum, we all add our opinions to the mix and come up with a decision. It doesn't matter who does the complaining when we make our decision. In fact, through the years we've been here, I couldn't tell you who the "complainers" are. It's not that important to me. I value every one's opinion and take any one's objection seriously.

We've lost forum members because we've allowed content that was objectionable to them and we've lost members because we've censored their content. We regret that hard feelings were created and we lost a valued member, but we have to make and stand by our decisions. There's no way around that.

It's impossible to give you a bulleted list of what we'll allow and what we won't. This has been going on in congress since the beginning of media and will never be agreed upon. It's one of those "you'll know it when you see it" kind of things, any my opinion will probably be different from yours.

I am a member and moderator on several other forums. Some are VERY open and liberal, some are not. I've been censored a few times on some of those forums. I don't question their right as to what they allow me to add to those communities. I have the right to not participate if I don't like their policies, but I continue my membership because the topics are interesting to me and I enjoy the dialog with those community members that I share similar hobbies or interests with.

I guess what it comes down to is, our decisions are OUR decisions that we and you have to live with. We regret any hurt feelings that may result, but none of our decisions will suit all.

Thanks for your input and listening to ours.

GucciGoo · Posted: Wed Feb 13, 2008 8:19 pm Post subject:

You know, this issue has NEVER been a problem here before. I have been a member here for a few years, and there is only one instance where anything got out of hand, and it involved a Christianity debate. That was in 2006 and we have all gotten along very well since then.

I have seen things I do not agree with on this forum. I sit here and laugh and mock the people to myself, then get out of the thread and move on. Many people do the same. Only a small amount of people complain about the forum because if they do not agree with what is posted, then clearly is does not belong here.